On December 1, my ex-spouse handed me the divorce papers https://onlinedivorcer.com/blog/cheating-wife-signs. I was devastated. She had been planning the divorce for months. Her parents, who had moved in with us to be closer to our 3 young children, had also known about it for months. Communication with my ex-spouse was strained, and I have not been in contact with her in-laws since then. Since receiving the news, I have been quickly fluctuating on a curve of change. Now, 3 weeks later, I have come to terms with the fact that our marriage is over. The relationship my wife and I once had, full of love and empathy for each other, is gone.